What should you know about swinging before you try to swing with
your partner? Here are the ten most important rules that every swinger
couple should know and follow to make sure you have a good time while
swapping partners.
Like any other human activity, swinging also has its pros and cons. A
few basic laid down principles can make swinging fun and foul-free,
every time.
One goes, both go
Come as a couple and leave as one. It is not preferable if one goes
while the other lags behind. Always go hand in hand without leaving your
partner behind. Swinging is safer and easier if both partners are
comfortable indulging in it. It is a team game. Not a solo affair.
Punctuality
Arriving at the correct time applies here as well. Turning up late at
a party is a turn-off. By the time you’re in, the night would be in
full swing. You’d only end up making people who are already in the act
feel awkward. You won’t know where to fit in too. Inform the host
beforehand if you are going to be late. Or you may not be invited again.
Courtesy
The lifestyle of the swingers isn’t a piece of cake. Sometimes it is
complex and complicated with lots of insecurities and uncertainties.
Courtesy is the key to ease up. Behave with people just like you would
like them to behave towards you. Be sensible, thoughtful and
understanding.
RSVP to Invitations
Even if you don’t wish to attend, answer to all invitations. It is
very annoying for a host if they don’t know how many people are going to
turn up. Reply by phone or mail and express your gratitude for the
invitation.
Gift for the Host
Don’t go to a party empty-handed. Ask the host about what you could
get for them. Get something racy or simple for the hosts every time you
attend a swingers’ party. See, it’s just like a normal party, isn’t it?
The Right Attire
Wear clothes that are practical and will be comfortable for you as
the night progresses. Carrying a robe or a negligee is a good idea. Take
only as much cash as you require. Keep your bling, jewelry and other
valuables to the bare minimum. Losing them will be headache to you and
an embarrassment to the hosts.
Health and Hygiene
Oral hygiene is a basic necessity for everyone. Bad breath or body
odor is a big turn-off for your potential partners. Shower and groom
well before you leave for the party. Good cologne, perfumes or body
sprays will give you the edge in the environment. The best way to enjoy
the party is by freshening up as you reach there.
Enjoy Yourself
The whole idea is to have fun and enjoy your time there, so
participate in activities that make you feel comfortable. Don’t let
anyone pressurize you to do something you don’t like. This may be the
most important one. Approach every activity with an open mind and
positive attitude. Act out your fantasies, and enjoy yourself.
The Right to say ‘NO’
This is the fundamental etiquette in swinging, the right to say ‘no’.
It is simple and straightforward, and polite to say ‘no, thank you’.
Explanations and alibis aren’t required as these may cause embarrassment
and hurt you. You shouldn’t be afraid to decline an invitation. It is
the only way to avoid doing something you might regret afterwards. And
that might just create more ill-feelings and embarrassment.
Friendliness
Be a friend to all, even if you don’t want to extend the night or
don’t have any interest in getting physical with someone. You may catch a
vibe by being nice with the others in the community. They may put you
across to people who you may be interested in.
Swinging can be every bit as invigorating, exciting and fulfilling as
you can ever imagine. It opens a window to explore your favorite
fantasies in safe mode. You and your partner can work out in private,
and yet you can enjoy another couple or get a group swing in just one
evening.
Meeting new interesting people and making bold friends are potential
side-effects of swinging. Swinging also has the common positive effect
of enhancing your relationship and personal life to a great extent. The
positive feeling about yourself, your mate, and your relationship is the
most important factor while swinging.
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