If you have just had a threesome with another swinger and it has
caused jealousy, then this is actually pretty common. A lot of swingers
have had difficulty being able to feel comfortable whenever they have to
share the person that they have sex with. Be it a partner or just a
person that they occasionally sleep with it can be difficult. It is
natural for people to become territorial with a person that they have
slept with so be sure that you can keep your feelings and theirs in
check.
Talk it Out
It is a good idea to talk it out with the jealous party. Talk to them
alone. This is the best way for you to make them feel special and like
you care. You can hear them out and try to explain to them why they
should or shouldn’t feel that way. Just be sure that you are kind with
them, even if you don’t know them very well. Jealousy is something that
can be very painful and difficult to go through so the more
compassionate you are the better.
Boundaries
It is a good idea for you to set boundaries. You will find that
whenever you only do things with a certain person and nobody else that
it can really help with jealousy. Whenever you allow your partner to
have sex with other people, then it can take away from the specialness
of your relationship. Whenever you have something that just the two of
you do. it can really do wonders with these feelings that you will have.
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