There are a lot of ways to settle your nerves if you are new to
swinging. If you happen to be nervous, then there is no way that you
will be able to enjoy yourself while you are in the act. It is a good
idea for you to make sure that you and your partner are able to be
comfortable with each other so that you can enjoy yourselves.
Go Slow
It is important to not just rush into it. It can make your nerves a
lot worse. Take things at your own pace and try not to allow yourself to
feel rushed. Make sure that you aren’t afraid to tell another swinger
that you need to slow down. If they don’t respect your wishes, then find
somebody else.
Have a Drink
It may help for you to have a drink or two before you get started.
While it is not recommended that you get completely drunk you may
benefit from having enough to calm your nerves. People tend to loosen up
after a drink. It may be in your best interest to consider doing this
yourself.
Tell Your Partners
Let your partner or partners know that you are nervous and that you
may need to take things slower than usual. Most swingers will respect
this and want to help you to get through this nerve wracking time. Just
make sure that you are honest and upfront with them so that they can
understand your feelings. If you try to hide your nerves to your
partners they will often think that you don’t like them or there is
something wrong with you.
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